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Los Angeles California BDSM

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Discover the kinkiest singles in Los Angeles California waiting to play

Find your perfect match at BDSM Connex, where passion, pleasure, and excitement await around every corner. Get to know our latest members looking for kinky experiences near you below.

Sarajava2
Los Angeles California

I’m a simple woman…. . positive vibes

Swimming, music, games, reading, fishing, camping……

Kinky mistress
Los Angeles California

Im a switch woman that gets excited training subs and also a good girl for dadd..

How horny can you be? What can I can do about it? How can I control you? You want to find out? message me.

DommistressX64
Los Angeles California

Exploring the Depths of Pleasure with Open Minds

DOM looking to have fun here and meet open minded people willing to explore sexual desires, create sexual chemistry and do what ever you can possibly imagine. A good boy who wants to please his Mistress by any means necessary is the real deal.

Woesenpaixoooo
Los Angeles California

Im here now so lets get kinky

If you wanna know more about me can freely ask me that privately.

Berry460
Los Angeles California

Am new to this online stuffs Single

I am very dedicated to my career for years that has helped mold me into the well traveled person that I am today.

Sandra
Los Angeles California

I take pride in my art , I will lead and Dom you like never before.

I get a mental turn-on from it. The mental high of dominating someone and making them submit to me is unlike anything else, and I get so much gratification out of feeling them melt like putty in my hands when I push them past what they thought they were capable of.

Mamacita
Los Angeles California

Hi it’s Agatha. Let’s be friends

Hi I am Agatha by the way, and I engage in all activities that comes with a dom/sub relationship. If you want we can have a session and I’ll make your fantasies come to life

Milla002
Los Angeles California

Lets explore our sexual fantasies and desires

I'm straight
Let become friends and we find out what's next

Mistress Jessica
Los Angeles California

Im misstress jhay, Im the best in what I do in this dominating lifestyle becau..

I preach what I practice everyday. I got into this dominate lifestyle some years back. And I remain my standard till date. I have trained quite of subs over the years. I require a loyal and committed Sub. I need a loyal and submissive who's ready to serve mistress and probably to meet first on my conditions. When you are fully owned you will be entitled to have my collar and enjoy my every ready strap on too. I possess good skills as a mistress in this lifestyle and I will train any sub who's ready to serve mistress and he will enjoy every moment we have together. As a dom I will encourage you, mentor you, answer questions with complete honesty.

Olivia
Los Angeles California

I’m a flexible mistress looking for loyal Dom, Sub to serve me in real life

Hello future Dominant, Submissive, you need a mistress that is well experienced, plays her kinky safe and have more than 6 years experience with a great lifestyle.

Goddesslinda
Los Angeles California

Single goddess seeking for an honest and loyal slave to get train and owned by m..

Goddess mommy looking for submissive sissy to train and get pegged

Compassionate laura
Los Angeles California

I am mistress Laura and i am open to anything and everything that wil bring hap..

Dominant woman looking for a loyal and adventurous submissive to train in this alternate way of life.

Avbbecky145
Los Angeles California

Open to anything and everything. Looking for a sub to fulfill my desires

I  am a compassionate Dominant woman looking for a loyal and adventurous submissive to train in this alternate way of life.

JenniferM691
Los Angeles California

I am here seeking for a relationship that would lead to marriage

Well a honest person makes me happy I am happy around good people

dasha0012
Los Angeles California

I offer your desire fantasies and I can make it more fun to have other sub or mi..

I'm a Dom interested in your fetish and fantasies,if you think you can withstand my power kindly get at me.

Strictdom
Los Angeles California

Looking for the interest of submissive slut

I’m a strict dominant I seek a loyal submissive slut to serve me

rioseinfun
Los Angeles California

Happiness is something I love so much does the reason I’m here to forget about t..

Putting a lot of things behind me and moving ahead as I enjoy this life I’m living now

Goddess Kira
Los Angeles California

I am dominatrix woman with over seven years of experience searching for a loyal ..

I am dominatrix woman with over seven years of experience searching for a loyal submissive slut

Angela
Los Angeles California

I’m a gorgeous don in search for a qualified sub to bring me pleasure,hit me up ..

I’m a gorgeous don in search for a qualified sub to bring me pleasure,hit me up to see if we can work out

Sarah
Los Angeles California

Ive got a mind to turn you over my knee and give you a good spanking

There is a lot  more to this lifestyle you can ever imagine. I like being kinky especially when it’s about role plays

Alva
Los Angeles California

I’m into pegging Bdsm Cross dressing Seduction Breast fetish Feet fetish ..

I love to socialize and have fun, travel around the world and give sessions and explore more of my fantasies and fetish.

lizb029
Los Angeles California

Sexy young curvy looking to explore and have a good time

I love to explore and would like to see who can take my body to that place

Cindy127
Los Angeles California

Love, Light, Joy and Freedom!!

Empowering intelligent conversations are a turn on for me!

katrina277
Los Angeles California

New way of life. Excitement, fun.

Sexy fun with other like minded people and enjoyment

roseg78
Los Angeles California

I always want ti make you happy

Has a good sense of humor and great talks about sex

EverlySai
Los Angeles California

Hello dear, come please. <3

I am a 18 year old 5’10 dominatrix. My name is Everly and I’m looking for subs.

StarFoxLosAngeles
Los Angeles California

I really just want to have fun

I’m all natural in all the right spots and a blast.

knsta542
Los Angeles California

New to the community and ready to explore more

Looking for someone who can show me the ropes as well as a real relationship

roseykisses
Los Angeles California

I’m new to all of this and looking to experiment

I’m pretty open to anything and I’m pretty easy to talk to

diamondcrys419
Los Angeles California

Come ready to worship your new mistress. I don’t like to be disappointed

I’m excited to meet new people as long as you are serious! Don’t waste my time

Littlevixen97
Los Angeles California

I’m a plus size switch looking to dom and role play. Please message me

I’m a 24 year old college student looking to find someone to explore my kinks with

fred2211zhqjr
Los Angeles California

Im Frederica but also calls Fredee, Im honest and love wholeheartedly when i ..

My ideal partner must be physically affectionate and sexually responsive. My ideal partner must be easily affectionate and responsive on many levels: physically, emotionally and verbally. He has to be personal, acknowledging and outwardly demonstrative of feelings of warmth and tenderness.

mondaletr294
Los Angeles California

Lets have some fun and see how it goes

Intrested in meeting people for more fun and experience

hummingbi134
Los Angeles California

Im looking for a sub, Im a nice mistress or Dominated, I dont like hurt them ..

I'm a single mother, looking for a right person and honest

Bayley722
Los Angeles California

Shy and unsure of most things but willing to try new things. I am single and up ..

Lets get naked, I got a plan. Looking for someone who is down

Productperf
Los Angeles California

Product of perfection. Perfectly production

The human body is more than amazing. I love both men and female

Linda55kk
Los Angeles California

I am a woman with a good heart who dreams of sincere love and passion. My desire..

I like to be active and gentle, my character is very friendly, romantic! I try to lead a healthy lifestyle and maintain my health and figure, I will be happy if my future half shares these qualities with me.

lilyben
Los Angeles California

For everyone who is misunderstood

Happy weird girl.  Loving myself one day at a time.

dreamc912
Los Angeles California

Check Me Out! Excited To Meet❤️

Looking To Be Taken Care Of & Some Fun Of Course!

christmaslaurelh633
Los Angeles California

New Submissive. . . Im not sure what to expect. . .

Aesthetically pleasing, not sure what to look for here, but I know Im in the right place!

katrina431
Los Angeles California

Let me make your dreams cum true !

I’m an awesome outgoing, open minded, sexy, and wet girl looking for that right person to play with

Sapphireluv
Los Angeles California

A sub with a burning desire to be tamed.

I love hardcore romance, and dominant men who can put me in my place.

trinityheal608
Los Angeles California

I love sex and I’m ready to play

I love touching and kissing and exploring. I want my body touched and kissed and explored too.

myndi80
Los Angeles California

I am very friendly, kind, caring, loving, and fun person. I am opened minded and..

I am open to trying new things.I like trying out new Restaurants Going to the park and just Walking around and taking a few pictures / Art is in the eyes of the beholder..hehe.I am comfortable attending a play, going to movies, Hobbies include the usual, cooking, gardening (mostly vegetable), remodeling, camping, and hanging with friends. If you have read this far.

Avaclitz
Los Angeles California

Handle my melons just right and I’ll keep you as my pet.

I love to take care of people, please don’t take my kind and compassionate nature for granted.

suzyjohn510
Los Angeles California

hi..Im jane i want a serious man to be with

i am looking for fun with couples men wether you live here or not

nellydam874
Los Angeles California

im strictly mistress seeking for totattal sumissive to own

im strictly missy and kind  im looking for royal loyalty

Misstj88
Los Angeles California

I’ll make you beg for more all you have to is obey me

I enjoy shopping for naughty and nice things, I enjoy fine wine and dinner..

amli668
Los Angeles California

i am single and ready ti mingle

ou have such a unique chance in meeting a person with Eastern and Western cultures mixed in their best variants. Do you want to know more about my heritage? Feel free to ask. A tender, loyal 'otaku'-girl, who prefers Japanese (and not only!) movies, books, and time at home to parties and clubs. I am an excellent chef, let's bet, I can cook any dish you ask me?

Vanessa380
Los Angeles California

Hey Im VanessaI speak Spanish

Want to be spoiled :)
I am 53 yrs old
don't worry I'm friendly

Sandracares21
Los Angeles California

Seeking For A Lovely & Ready to commit Sub that would Explore this Lifestyle wit..

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or scar or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner. My main aim is to derive pleasure in ways explainable. There's so much to this lifestyle i want to show to my potential sub/servant. All i want is your obedience and loyalty, and above all, your submission to me as your mistress.

dge798
Los Angeles California

My life is very saturated, but I do not have the most important thing, a loving ..

I want a man with whom we can equally share the greatest joy and the biggest sorrow. I want to be confident in you and know that you are my support and I will give you all the love of the world

gold733
Los Angeles California

New to this, trying to see where this leads

High sex drive but no one to have sex with. Chocolate takes the cake

helenamche126
Los Angeles California

Upfront and honest, I like to be loved and to really feel loved.

I am not really big on small talk, I will love to meet a real mature man.

Dudsd13
Los Angeles California

I will and always with have control...iam a hermofdite I like to role play with ..

I like to role play about getting my man pregnant
Mpreg

davispre806
Los Angeles California

I’m looking to explore my dominant side in a very naughty but Kinky streak away ..

I enjoy PEGGING taking lead being in control I’m very open minded

enidrodrig890
Los Angeles California

Looking for groups nd dominants.

Submissive, Exhibitionist, like to be shared and like it rough.

Lulu632
Los Angeles California

Im a newbie in this world of bdsm but open minded to new endeavors.

Looking for a casual partner I can connect and feel comfortable with in trying new things, And finding friends with the same interests.

npied767
Los Angeles California

Half angel half brat Findom looking for my pay pig

College girl, keep me sweet by spoiling me. I'm the boss and I make the rules.

daesum761
Los Angeles California

Looking for fun new people to have fun

I like to have fun meet new people … very unstoppable sensual touching

MissLaura427
Los Angeles California

Taking full control of your life is my Ultimate priority

For your information, Miss Laura wont take anything less than your absolute submission.

love4heals100
Los Angeles California

I love sports. I go to the gym and do fitness with a personal trainer. Travellin..

I am a well-educated and intelligent woman. I can speak on different topics and have any conversation. I am a cheerful and smiling person. They say I express special vibes, which attract people to me. I am energetic and full of ideas, which I successfully turn into reality. I am purposeful and able to reach my goals. I believe nothing is impossible, our destiny is in our hands.

josa646
Los Angeles California

Hi Im new on here and wanting to make new friends and see where it will lead us ..

Victoria is my name , Single never been married ..

Queenkatrina8
Los Angeles California

I want to have my body used for ur personal pleasure

I'm seeking for some erotic fun with man, woman, couple and more

shaybab165
Los Angeles California

Let’s have some funI won’t bite

I love taking control over everything, I love being in charge!

showmesomethingnewa023
Los Angeles California

Do you know how to keep me happy? Come tell me how you would please me

I have everything I want emotionally, mentally and physically. I don't judge

salinastho755
Los Angeles California

Love to suck big cocks while eating pussy. Or another cock

I am small frame woma n but have big lactating titts 42DDs

elizabethjwo030
Los Angeles California

Let have a good time together,lovely and sex

sexy body,love to make fun and visit new places lol

teeba221
Los Angeles California

The taste of sweet honeycombxo

Okay update.. I am now back in CA and I need my submissive man. I am looking for that guy who loves to be controlled in everything and answer to me saying yes dear.  If you are that guy contact me.

hkane34
Los Angeles California

I am sexy love taking pics of myself

I’m pretty and nice and sexy and sweet and loving I love

donnaj681
Los Angeles California

Hi Im just on here looking to find a kind, honest, funny guy to share good time..

I’m a little bit shy, so don’t be put off! I’m a family girl who likes films, good food and my Pug/Jack Russell cross- Milo.

carlisl641
Los Angeles California

Down to earth girl here. Message me

I'm an easy-going type of person and really down to earth. I love to be happy because that's what keeps the world going. Worrying too much will make things worse.

mis777
Los Angeles California

Looking for Master long term but in college want to finish first.

Dominating. Sexy. Smart. Nice body. Like a good spanking.

Nadiagrove
Los Angeles California

Brat. | Financial Domimatrix. | , .

20 year old findom. Searching for my submissive that'll earn my respect as we fulfill our desires.

pret496
Los Angeles California

let have some naughty fun all day and night

I am very hard-working, purposeful. I enjoy life and everything connected with it. I am an honest person and I also don`t like when somebody lies to me. I always respect people and I hate betrayals. I am the Happiness! And I am ready to be the real Happiness for YOU!

Tro316
Los Angeles California

I’m new to Bdsm looking for a Dom

My bratty personality, my willingness to try new things

uskalala132
Los Angeles California

Open, looking for fun with female, males, couples or group

Im am fun outgoing and ready to explore and show my vibe here.

Alwaysgjgjb
Los Angeles California

I need someone to play with, love to dominate and get dominated .

I'm looking for a couples or single to play with, hit me up if you are interested and message me.

marinabr879
Los Angeles California

I am sincere, honest woman who longs for inner self-developmen t and self-affi..

I am sincere, honest girl who longs for inner self-development and self-affirmation at the expense of my own abilities and talents. I respect others and do not afraid to show my affection toward those whom I like. I like to try new things in life and I know what charm of novelty means

kaidir905
Los Angeles California

I am a real lady feminine and intelligent even my voice is very gentle. I hope y..

Looking for someone who have a sense of humor more energetic and dynamic. Let's find out if this magic will click

brittanyvene022
Los Angeles California

Looking for someone interested in being warped and demeaned. For fantasy experie..

Wants to perform for my sub and fulfill fantasies of Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and Submission,

janetbr641
Los Angeles California

Loyal and honest ready for you

I’m a good and loyal and honest babe I’m looking for a serious relationship

brandylmanagem337
Los Angeles California

My Sub Peg. Say hello to your mistress

I don’t like talking back, I’m looking for a person that wants to have a mistress to be a  sub. Obedience is a must peg submissive is a must.

Chica988
Los Angeles California

New to this but ready to explore

Married couple looking for new and like-minded friends.