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Browse members near you looking for local spanking contacts for bare bottom fun. Whether you are a spanker or spankee, BDSM Connex has a huge variety of members who enjoy spanking, discipline and bondage.

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If you crave the feeling of a firm hand on your backside or enjoy administering a good spanking to a willing spankee, there is no better place to explore your fantasies than BDSM Connex, the adult playground for all things sub, dom, pain and pleasure. You will find members in your city looking for a variety of wild and exciting sexual experiences. Why not browse our personal ads today or join for free and create your own listing?

Why is spanking so popular?

Spanking is a common practice in the BDSM and fetish scene and a good introduction into the world of bondage, S&M and roleplay. For many, spanking is the first taste of BDSM, punishment or sub/dom relationships. Spanking or light bondage (being tied up or handcuffed) are very popular bedroom activities practiced by couples around the world who, often wouldn’t even consider themselves kinky or into fetish practices. This is often the first taste many of our members get and what perks their interest in other forms of BDSM and fetish sex.

The reason people get so turned on when being spanked or dishing out the spanking is not so clear-cut. What we do know is pain and pleasure have gone hand in hand for centuries and when practiced as a consensual act, releases dopamine which is a chemical related to pleasure. We can trace the act of whipping for sexual gratification back to the 15th century when vinegar soaked whips were traded for the purpose of whipping during sex.

In a 15th-century work, Italian philosopher Giovanni Pico della Mirandola comments upon one monk who couldn't enjoy intercourse unless he was lashed with a whip soaked in vinegar.

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