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BDSM Glossary

Erotic humiliation is an aspect of BDSM play where one partner deliberately humiliates the other during a sexual encounter. This form of play can take various forms, both verbal and physical, and is consensually engaged in by both parties. The act of humiliation can range from mild teasing to more extreme forms, such as degradation, objectification, or even acts like urinating or defecating on a partner, depending on the agreed-upon boundaries and limits. In erotic humiliation scenes, boundaries, safe words, and limits are essential to ensure the emotional and psychological well-being of all participants. Without proper communication and mutual understanding, this type of play can potentially damage a relationship or harm a partner's self-esteem. For those who enjoy it, erotic humiliation can be a source of intense arousal and pleasure. The psychological aspect of being humiliated or degraded by a trusted partner can create a heightened sense of vulnerability and intimacy. It's important for both partners to trust each other implicitly and to have clear communication about desires, boundaries, and aftercare to ensure a safe and fulfilling experience.

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jswa344
Southend

Good sex with interesting & nice company in personality!!!

Unique, clean,laughing, kind,in controlle, strongh personality, good looking in my own way, love Men & women to have fun & good times with. Happy in my life!!

Sofja3051
Southend

Single, openminded, caring woman

I want to love and be loved, I want happy, long term relationship. I want the same things I would give to my partners. I’m spontaneous, loving life feminine woman. I am looking for intelligent, confident men with good manners and gosh, who have common interest, similar taste in music. My first love is nu metal, but I listen to relaxing music, rave, d&b and more. Also I’m spiritual pagan. I want partner(s) who is mentally strong and masculine, protective and supportive, caring and loving.

roxycamb871
Southend

Busty Brunette Fun Naughty & Sociable



I’m Wanting

Honest
Genuine
Generous
Kind
Funny
Sociable
Professional
Gentlemen
Lady’s

I Do Not Want

Rude
Unhygienic
Time Wasters

rosh120Southend
Southend

Looking to be watched and excited.

I've got a curvy mum bod and I'm looking to share it with some men.

jskjd366
Southend

Im willing to learn, Open minded, Respect on both sides

I look hard but have sub energy, I'm soft and kind but can be bratty