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BDSM Ely

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BDSM Glossary

Financial domination, also known as Findom, is a unique aspect of BDSM where the exchange of power is intertwined with financial control. In this dynamic, a submissive individual, often referred to as a 'money slave,' willingly relinquishes control over their finances to a dominant partner, known as a 'financial dominatrix' or 'money mistress/master.' The submissive derives pleasure from the act of giving gifts, money, or financial resources to their dominant partner, who takes on the role of ultimate authority over their finances. The power dynamics in financial domination revolve around the submissive's financial servitude and the dominant's control and exploitation of their financial resources. The submissive finds gratification in surrendering their financial autonomy, experiencing arousal and fulfillment from the act of financial submission. Financial domination can take various forms, ranging from the submissive providing gifts and tributes to their dominant partner to more extreme practices such as financial blackmail, where the dominant coerces the submissive into providing financial resources under the threat of exposure or consequences. While financial domination may seem unconventional to some, it is a consensual exchange of power and control that fulfills the desires and fantasies of both parties involved. It requires clear communication, trust, and understanding of boundaries to ensure a safe and mutually satisfying experience for all participants. Ultimately, financial domination is about the exchange of power, control, and erotic gratification through the dynamics of financial servitude and domination. It offers a unique avenue for exploring dominance and submission within the realm of BDSM, where the transfer of wealth becomes a symbol of obedience, devotion, and submission.

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Gina
Ely

Here to have fun and fill with happiness at all tracks

I’m fun to be with, more attractive on bed and sex

Eking21
Ely

Come have fun with us we want to explore

Funny bubbly curvy fun loving woman looking for fun with her bf

BlueGlitter
Ely

I have a secondary, I am looking for someone that can fill in the gaps.

I have a submissive heart, I love cuddles and dates. Looking for a companion, probably asking a lot but it's worth trying right?

heidi07lil
Ely

Submissive looking for her dominant

I hate this question , let’s talk about it instead

michaelah975
Ely

Guess We will wait and see. £) (_(

Just trying new things. Meet new people and meet my needs

SuncenterEly
Ely

Love someone else taking control

Plus size, natural blonde, innocent looking, but not

tracyw525
Ely

I am looking for real gentleman not one night stand and not ready to exchange nu..

My dreams/hopes are that I meet my soulmate and share a wonderful future together, sharing life, the ups and the downs, being there for each other no matter what.  Cuddling up to someone in the evenings, waking up next to that person in the morning, watching them sleeping peacefully next to me.  The wonder of love and loving.  My needs are not many, I only want the simple things in life, to be happy, healthy , to be with that special person and to live a good life together.

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