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Indulge in submissive fantasies by meeting dominant women and dominatrixes in Cardiff. Being a submissive is all about surrendering to the thrill of the unknown, letting go of control, and reveling in the delicious power exchange. Whether you're fantasizing about being tied up, teased, and tantalized, or yearning to explore your deepest desires under the watchful eye of a dominant partner, submissive BDSM promises an exhilarating journey of discovery and delight. So, strap yourself in (or let someone else do it for you), because the ride is about to get oh-so-enticingly adventurous!

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Edgeplay, within the realm of BDSM, introduces an element of risk and intensity into the scene, pushing boundaries and exploring the edges of one's comfort zone. This type of play involves activities that carry a heightened potential for harm, whether it be physical or emotional. Examples of edgeplay may include practices such as bloodplay and gunplay, where participants engage in activities that could potentially cause injury or emotional distress. What sets edgeplay apart is its subjective nature; what one individual may consider risky or extreme, another may find thrilling and arousing. Because of this, there isn't a universal list of activities that fall under the category of edgeplay. Instead, it's defined by the specific players involved and their individual limits and boundaries. Engaging in edgeplay requires a high degree of trust and communication between partners. It's essential for participants to discuss their boundaries, establish safe words, and continuously check in with each other throughout the scene to ensure that everyone feels comfortable and respected. While edgeplay can add an exhilarating element to BDSM play, it's crucial for participants to approach it with caution and awareness of the potential risks involved. With proper communication, consent, and risk-awareness, edgeplay can be a deeply satisfying and transformative experience for those who dare to explore

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Single lady looking for some casual, no strings fun.

I have been known to squirt....if you are into that type of thing (assisting). Rather open minded and looking for similar minded people.

I like to talk dirty only in the lead up to a meet, please do not contact me unless you are serious about meeting up (i want real life cock pounding my pussy and ass, and YOUR fingers to make me squirt, not mine).

Due to current travel restrictions, i am  looking for Cardiff playmates only for the duration of our lockdown, i'm sorry. So if you are local with daytime availabilty, please get in touch.


Sweet, bubbly and very talkative I also have a naughty side. But I’m Sure you’ll..

There are many interesting things about me ( or so I like to think) give me a message to find out


Horny and need a little bit of hot fun with a special one

making a man satisfied for the best possible experience for all


Tease me .. test me.. give me your best hook up line I dare you..

Show me who you are and be truthful. I toe curling feeling.. I want lust .. new adventure and a hell of a ride .. try me ?


Im looking for a dominant partner to pretty much control every aspect of my lif..

Looking for a confident strong dominating partner.


Reasonably experienced sub looking for someone to please

I enjoy bondage, edging and impact play. I have some experience but I am looking to explore some more.


Hot wet curvy and love deep throat make me choke...

Curvy tatt gal
Can’t get enough sucking balls deep
Want to try new things couples come my way I will partner up ;) recently single and can’t FUCKING wait to mingle ...


Wild side but loving heart. Naughty in many way a always willing to try new thin..

Gwniune people who enjoy the same things as me.. Must have connection to each other thou at nothing will happen


Bossy lil bitch queen. Wanna make u my lil bitch

Im a horny bITCH with high sex drive....ready to b boss


Im 71 years old, living in the Cardiff region. Im interested in meeting a man..

I'm 71 years old, living in the Cardiff region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.
I will travel for hookups


Looking to test the waters and figure out who I am

I have never broken a bone. I’m looking for some to help me explore who I am


Pro Domina. Humiliation Ball busting Cbt Pegging Sissy play

Looking to meet those willing to be in femdom clips I sell for my store.


Bossy bitch with a bad attitude. I only chill for the dick. Dick makes me in2 a ..

I'm looking for a sissy boy with a big sexual appetite. Ill boss u for that dick and make u feel like a little boy


I live on my own and drive so I’m able to travel

threesome, gangbang, regular and one off meet-ups etc


I am a blonde, endearing and submissive to anyone worthy of it..

You’ve found a blonde with an IQ, congratulations.

I don’t give too much away,
You’ll have to ask more questions;)


I want to try something new, that I have always wanted to do!

I like to be submissive. But I’m not interested in the humiliation side


Young kinky girl looking for someone to help her explore her submissive side

I play rugby so looking for someone who will put my feisty side in check


I am single love sex love dirty sex but new to this feel like a virgin

Chunky monkey , short love sex
Looking for regular sex


Looking to start a new chapter, sharing and making new memories.

If you are genuine, caring and honest, and like my profile then give me a shout.
I haven’t got a type but believe that being able to laugh with someone and having that chemistry between us is important.

I would rather be straight.. . I have tried long distance but not something I would now consider. So within 50 miles of Newport would be ideal.

Also NOT into casual physical hook ups, so please dont ask. You may be offended by my reply.


Need a guide to start my journey

Always been more submissive so looking for someone to help me explore this


I want to try new things that frighten me a little, but thrill and excite me at ..

I'm married ... but it's an open marriage...I have total freedom


I want to try new things that frighten me a little, but thrill and excite me at ..

I live in an open marriage ... I have total freedom


Im looking for my perfect Sir

Dominant male who knows what he wants. Someone who is creative and kinky


Hey Sir, I see you lurking…come say hi! I don’t bite, unless you ask me to.

I’m really open minded, easy to talk to and a big love for new things. And yes I do love to be spoilt rotten x


My only desire is to please you

Very obedient submissive looking for strict dominant


Red head me . Come and say hi . You been on here long ?

Come and chat . I am single and looking someone  who is funny and down to earth , and don’t take life to seriously


Im fun curvy and enjoy good fun

I'm 49 but young at heart I'm very bubbly  and out going


Passionate redhead looking for long term meets

Having a look what's out there in the hope of meeting up


Im new at this, be kind. Be naughty

I'm a big girl with a big sex drive. I really want to explore everything out there but I am a little shy to do it.


Im a naught, who needs training

I'm open to trying most new things and looking some one who will train me.


Looking for dogging, outdoors fun, love oral, hit me up if youre interested

Not looking for a boyfriend, just looking for hook ups


Dominant in day to day life, a desire to relinquish control

Long term sexual relationship, no commitment, I am dominant in waking life and wish to explore the role of submissive


Don’t just dress to kill but dress to impress and to make your man addicted to y..

Let’s walk through to know. It’s better you see and feel


I am new to this world and I am looking for someone to teach me.

I am new here and want to try and be adventurous. I am looking for someone who knows how to teach a new sub.


Want someone to take control of me good luck tho cause I’m a Dom personality and..

Come be my Dom! Tell me what to do? I’ll try my hardest


Very Playful, likes to put on a show

I want a man that's dominant and knows how to handle a big woman

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